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Halloween mood (New kids on the block)

Cork, Ireland - Halloween is approaching again, and we are all getting ready for the "Trick or treat" reality. My neighbourhood is full of kids and it's a pleasure to see them coming over , knocking at doors all dressed up, handing over their open bags to receive the treats. I'm still debating if it's my husband the one having more fun, or the kids. Last year he got all dressed up in a scary vampire suite, he put horrifying music on, full of shouts and evil laughters, and he hid behind the door waiting for the approaching groups of kids... he would then open the door before the knocking, and shout and make faces and scare the hell out of the innocent souls! Quite fun, i have to say.
Last year was the first year I decided to get properly ready for the reality. I started a month ahead by shopping for halloween style cookie-shapers, searching the internet for yummy recipes and finally  I spent a week backing different shape of cookies, decorating them with chocolate, green and orange icing sugar and so on. I carefully selected my pumpkin, the biggest one i could find, and i designed it and left the carving part to my husband, who is well trained after years of pumpkin-carving from his teenargerhood between Mexico and the States.
Well, what can I say! I was more excited than the kids and i have been waiting for the first knock all afternoon... and when they knocked, I wore my best smile and offered my hamper of home-made delicatessen, each one of them wrapped in a single transparent cookie bag with colorful ribbons... and you know what? The new kids on the block politely reply "No, thank you!" and went for the cheap candies i bought at the corner shop just in case of shortage of cookies.
I almost cried! No, thank you?! How come?? I am seeing in my head all those halloween American movies with mamas baking loads and kids divouring loads... and the only thing i get i a "No, thank you". I was so distressed that I asked my husband to take care of the offering, and he had the good mind of asking one of the kids why they didn't want to get any of the home made stuff.
"Because mummy said Only industrial candies!"
Fear of unsafe food give out in a peaceful neighbourhood, I guess. Understandable, but what a disappointment for me!
This year, only industrial candies for us. I wonder how are things around the world. Are people really getting suspicious of their own neighbours? Now that I have kids, I'd say i'd be the same... but movies are movies!

Comments (6)

Nov 01, 2009
Roberto Fonti said...
San Francisco - First of all you forgot to mention that there is no Halloween in Italy. Well, there are a few parties in bars and clubs and it is probably getting bigger and bigger every year... but it's nothing compared to the American tradition. Here in San Francisco everybody is crazy about Halloween! It's an event for girls to dress like sluts (the most common costumes being "the naughty nurse", "the sexy bee", "the sexy hippie", the sexy everything...), for gays to show how gay they are, for everybody to go crazy. Most of the people care about it so much that they make a lot of effort to have the best costume. That is way it's usually a lot of fun.

About your experience, kids might learn not to accept hand made candies, but when they grow up - you can believe me - they don't mind tasting fake blood from the little bag I've been carrying around! Pictures here: http://gowest08.blogspot.com/2009/11/halloween-in-castro.html


Nov 04, 2009
Roisin said...
I just had the most fun ever on my first ever Halloween in San Francisco! I love how much people get into the spirit of it here, although I also don't understand all the sexy nurse, sexy pirate, sexy air hostess etc etc ..... aren't the costumes supposed to be scary?! Me - I went as a creepy clown. Not sexy at all...
Nov 04, 2009
Roberto Fonti said...
Yes, good point... aren't the costumes supposed to be scary? When did Halloween turn into a happy Carnival?
Nov 04, 2009
Silvia Curioni said...
San Francisco - I also LOVED my first American Halloween. As soon as the Halloween stores started to open I got addicted to it! It's incredible all the costumes and gadgets they have! I was going to a Halloween store every other week!

About the actual day, it was super fun!!! I went to a huge party on Friday and it was amazing how creative people are, there were some really nice costumes, it's not like in other places in the world where I've been where people just put a witch hat, or a police t-shit, here it is a complete pack : costume, shoes, make-up, wig! It's amazing! I can tell you it is even more fun than Carnival in Brazil! Besides that Carnival lasts 5 days... :D

I don't really care about the sluts costume as soon as the body under it is beautiful... I saw some really gross sluts around, and that is NOT nice :D. I guess Halloween was once all about scary costumes but then people just ran out of ideas and started to just wear a nice costume. I was princess Leia, not scary at all, but I LOVED to wear that costume! :D

Nov 04, 2009
Silvia Curioni said...
I forgot one thing: Halloween at Castro on Saturday night was super fun! The weather was awesome (strange for Sanfran) and gay people REALLY knows how to have fun!!!!
Nov 04, 2009
Roisin said...
'I saw some really gross sluts around' - Best comment ever!

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